Is Your Lady Enjoying Sex?

Men have been trying many different ways to find exact ways if a woman is really enjoying sex or not. Many times men think that a woman is faking it in order to protect their feelings. This may be the case and the best way to figure it out is to have on open line of communication with your female partner. But even then they still may try to make you feel better and say you were great in the sack. So what’s a fella to do?

Even though communication is key if you get a negative response it can make the man feel bad and women definitely do not want that. All in all a guy is no closer at getting to the heart of the matter. There are a few ways that a man can find out if their lady is enjoying sex and these ways do not rely on communication. It is important to find out what techniques and positions your partner enjoys and which ones she does not.

You need to pay close attention to her body language and how her body responds to what you are doing in bed. After a while of having sex with someone they should know what she likes and what she does not. You can try few positions and techniques and try to remember how she reacts. This is a type of non-speaking communication. You have to look for things such as subtle body movements and verbal sounds that tells you what you are doing is good and makes her feel good or bad and makes her squirm.

If she attempts to guide you to a part of her body that go with it, and see what her reaction is. She is trying to help you out in what feels good. If she looks to be bored wit what you are doing and not into it that go onto something else to try to change her response. There should be some techniques and positions that she will enjoy and you have to pinpoint them and do them, so you know she is enjoying the sex.

When you learn to read her signs it will be easier to make sure she is enjoying having sex with you. Try new things and remember how she reacts to them. If you can read her body language than it can be much easier for you to please her in bed. If you become good at reading her body language you will never have to ask the question afterwards of, how was it because you will know by how she reacts.

This is not to say that communication should be disregarded, as it should not be. Talk with your partner and she may tell you what she likes and what she does not. However if you are new in the relationship and not quite comfortable enough yet to talk frankly about your sexual performance that try these tips and see if they work for you.